Is It Pornography, Or Is It Erotica?

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pornography ⋅ noun obscene writings, drawings, photographs, or the like, especially those having little or no artistic merit. erotica ⋅ noun literature or art dealing with sexual love. So which would you categorize the stories that you read here on my site under? It’s funny because the distinction doesn’t really matter to me. Both terms are highly subjective when we start talking about artistic merit, and I’ve never been one to consider what I do to be particularly highbrow, anyways. Words are my …

Reflecting on the Evolution of One’s Kink

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Sometimes it’s intriguing to me to look back at how my interests in all of this have changed over the years… Case in point – if you had told me a couple of years ago that there would be a time when I would actually consider cuckolding to be a turn-on, I’d have told you that you’re fucking nuts! Nowadays, …

The Challenge of Finding Decent Bondage Gear

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Cheap bondage gear is a really big pet peeve of mine. You know the kind – found in those big blister pack displays at your friendly, neighborhood sex store. It seems crazy to pay $59 for a few strips of thin leather hastily riveted together with a pair of flimsy D-rings to connect them, but when you and your partner …

Exploring the Cuckolding Fantasy…

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You may have noticed that more and more new stories about this particular topic have started popping up on this site over the last couple months. In a way, believe me – I’m just as surprised as you! I suppose you could say that cuckolding fell upon my own radar as sort of an extension of domination – once a …

Kink Can Be Funny Sometimes…

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It’s not all whips and chains, even as much as we might like to make it. But just like everywhere else in life, sometimes things don’t always go exactly according to plan. Sometimes our outside stress gets the best of us, sometimes real life collides with our happy fantasy world, sometimes lady luck just feels like being a little bit …