Kinky Links That I Love!

BONDAGE GEAR

custom leather restraints
gags
sensory deprivation hoods
spanking toys
and more!

Church of Sinvention

Hands down my favorite maker of leather bondage gear – you really do get what you pay for when you’re buying from these folks and I’ve never not been impressed at the quality and the craftsmanship when I place an order from this industry icon.

When you’re ready to graduate from the cheap, Chinese-made restraints from your local sex store, Sinvention is where you turn for gear that will really last a lifetime if you take care of it.

SEX EDUCATION

membership site
instructional videos
blog posts

Kink Academy

Curious about kink but don’t know where to start?

Home to over 2,000 instructional videos from 140+ kinky professionals, Kink Academy is a great resource for anyone looking to expand their knowledge about new kinks, even if you’re brand new to BDSM and all of its thrills!

If you dig, you’ll even find a few blog posts written by yours truly…

Sex Education

informational comic strip
how-to guides
sex toy reviews

Oh Joy Sex Toy!

Dedicated to normalizing sex education and talking about sexual pleasure, this long form comic strip offers a fun way to learn about positions and kinks that you might not have heard of, along with toy reviews that spare no expense in answering the questions one would ask when it comes to sex toys.

It’s really a great resource for learning and entertainment alike!

Bondage gear

custom leather restraints
custom day collars
kinky jewelry & accessories
kinky gifts

Restrained Grace

A small, woman-owned bondage boutique created by two people who are clearly passionate about their craft, this is a great place to turn if you’re looking for something a little special for someone’s first restraints or even want something to discretely wear with your everyday clothes.

The level of customization that these girls offer is really impressive and they approach kink in a very warm and welcoming manner that is a nice change from most retailers.

SEX Education

dominance & submission
BDSM safety
personal growth & development

Submissive Guide

One of the first resources of its kind for educational content around BDSM and kink, this site has collected hundreds upon hundreds of articles throughout the years to help introduce people to this world and how to explore it safely. If you’d rather read than watch information videos, Submissive Guide needs to be in your bookmark list!

INSERTABLE TOYS

silicone dildos
butt plugs
strap-ons

Tantus

People don’t realize that you have to be pretty careful when buying toys to insert inside yourself or somebody else because cheap substances like jelly and phthalate-based PVC can literally be toxic to the human body!

Tantus only uses medical-grade, body-safe silicone for their toys, so you can spend less time worrying about your new butt plug staining your sheets or your dildo melting away in your drawer (seriously!) and more time having fun with them!

PHOTOS & VIDEO

bondage and fetish photography
scripted bondage videos

Bondage Cafe

Probably my favorite bondage photographer of all times, discovering the artwork of Jim Weathers is what taught me about the beauty of bondage and fetish fashion beyond being something that was just pornographic. His passion really rang through with restrictive outfits and intricately-designed sets that elevate his art above the rest.