A Kinky Bucket List

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What are some sexy things that you’d like to try in your lifetime???

This article was inspired by a post that SubmissiveFeminist shared to help people brainstorm about making their own sexual bucket lists, so it got me doing a little thinking of my own and here we are!

Now mine isn’t really meant to be an exhaustive list, mind you.

Moreso a fun way to ponder and dream about kinky things that I haven’t done yet, but would still like to explore in the future, not to mention yet another way for me to procrastinate while I’m supposed to be working on my next story! 😉

1. Spend 24 hours bound in heavy leather sensory deprivation.

We’re talking leather sleepsack, we’re talking corset and boots underneath, along with a heavy leather hood and plenty of straps to hold me down to one of those floating suspension boards.

No spiky tortures this time. No tease and denial. Just sweet, relaxing solitude…

2. Be on the receiving end of a really intense caning.

One of my favorite, more intense BDSM stories is about a guy who decides to surprise his girlfriend for her birthday by having her best friend tie him up for her. What he doesn’t know is that the friend changes his intent from a fun gesture to a challenge to break him, banking on her sadistic tendencies to create a multiple day bondage and discipline ordeal that will transform their relationship forever.

It’s really hot, and although I might not be onboard for enduring an overnight straitjacket suspension followed by a severe hogtied suspension … the cruel spirit in this story I think would be fun to recreate!

3. Wear a pair of ballet boots.

They just seem like fun!

4. Spend an extended amount of time locked in chastity.

I’ve experimented with a few hours here or an evening or overnight there, but much like the stories that people like me write about, I think it would be interesting to play with chastity for longer intervals. Weeks? Months? Mmmmm…

Unfortunately, my life is far too crazy at the moment to really do something of this magnitude justice, but maybe sometime in the future.

It actually might be kind of fun to try writing a full length novel while locked in chastity, now that I think about it…

5. Design and make something out of leather with my own hands.

I’m absolutely fascinated by good, quality leatherwork because it connects to my very personal leather fetish. If I had the time, and the money, and the space for all of the machinery, I might consider making my own gear … but I don’t, which is why I’ve opted to write sexy stories about said amazing leather gear instead!

That said, some day I’d like to do something – whether it’s getting just enough supplies to make a simple collar or a pair of cuffs, or maybe even getting to spend a week standing over somebody’s shoulder in their workshop to see how they do their craft. Anything along those lines would be very cool.

6. Collaborate creatively with some of the kinky icons that inspire me.

I already love social media and the Internet for even allowing me to connect with these people who I first discovered as bondage models and photographers and authors at the very brink of my sexual awakening, but as I continue to grow and expand creatively, I think it would be really awesome to get to work with some of these same folks on that level, too.

I can’t really divulge details here, but I’ve already started testing the waters and dabbling a little bit in this area, and I you wouldn’t believe how excited it gets me about the future!

7. Get something pierced.

Nipples or genitals. Very submission-oriented.

I actually have a long-standing fantasy about visiting a piercing salon that is BDSM friendly where one would be strapped down to the chair and pierced to their mistress’s liking regardless of how squeamish they may feel about it, so … that could be fun. 😉

8. Get a kink-inspired tattoo.

I’m not really a tattoo person, however I’ve promised myself that if I can get my business to meet certain goals, I’ll push myself to make this one happen. Not sure how discrete, but I think my logo would be a fitting tribute to everything that kink has been for me.

9. Build a home dungeon that’s accessed through a secret door.

Admittedly this is kind of a win the lottery-style goal – at least how I’ve envisioned it, with a St. Andrew’s Cross and a spanking bench and a huge, four-posters iron bed dominating the center of the room!

I think it would be really cool, and also somewhat fitting, to have said dungeon accessible through a door hidden in a bookcase or something of that nature. Granted, I’m not entirely sure how they get all of that kinky sex furniture into the room if it’s hidden away behind a secret bookcase, but I suppose we worry about one step at a time for making this one a reality.

10. Write enough erotica to fill an entire bookcase.

And last but not least, this one simply reminds me that it’s time to stop screwing around and get back to work! 😉

Dream big, and then go out and make your wildest perversions your reality!

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