It’s that time again when everyone is brainstorming ways to improve their lives in the new year, so why not make a resolution or two and grow your kinky side while you’re at it?!
I was reading resolutions posts from other authors yesterday and thought that this might be a fun exercise to help get my own creative juices flowing!
From dommes and subs to fetishists and other kinky folks – what kinds of New Year Resolutions could a kinkster make???
For Dominants…
- Surprise your sub with something you haven’t played with before!
- Strive to be more clear with your expectations and desires.
- Hold your sub accountable for your displeasure.
- Explore adding a ritual to your relationship, such as regular spankings, boot worship, or whatever you enjoy.
For Submissives…
- Resolve to talk less and worship more.
- Challenge yourself to find new ways to please her.
- Confess to your domme something that both excites you and scares you.
- Write down how you feel after your sessions and gift them to your domme at a later date.
For Those Into Bondage…
- Learn a new tie.
- Try a new kind of restraint that’s outside of your comfort zone.
- Figure out the longest time you’ve spent tied up, and then beat your own record.
- Take a yoga or pilates class to help limber up for even more intense bondage positions.
For Chastity Boys (and Girls!)…
- Simple – spend more time locked in chastity!
- Extra Credit – spend less time whining about being locked in chastity.
For Leather and Latex Fetishists…
- Save up your cash and splurge on that premium piece of gear you’ve been fantasizing about for years.
- Learn about the proper care and handling of your fetish treasures to ensure they’ll last.
For Erotic Authors…
- Discover a new kink that you haven’t written about before.
- Make a writing schedule and hold yourself to it.
- Write more of the things that you love, and cherish the connections you make with readers who love them, too!
Happy New Year – now go make it your kinkiest one yet!