New Year’s Resolutions for Every Kinky Pervert!

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It’s that time again when everyone is brainstorming ways to improve their lives in the new year, so why not make a resolution or two and grow your kinky side while you’re at it?!

I was reading resolutions posts from other authors yesterday and thought that this might be a fun exercise to help get my own creative juices flowing!

From dommes and subs to fetishists and other kinky folks – what kinds of New Year Resolutions could a kinkster make???

For Dominants…

  • Surprise your sub with something you haven’t played with before!
  • Strive to be more clear with your expectations and desires.
  • Hold your sub accountable for your displeasure.
  • Explore adding a ritual to your relationship, such as regular spankings, boot worship, or whatever you enjoy.

For Submissives…

  • Resolve to talk less and worship more.
  • Challenge yourself to find new ways to please her.
  • Confess to your domme something that both excites you and scares you.
  • Write down how you feel after your sessions and gift them to your domme at a later date.

For Those Into Bondage…

  • Learn a new tie.
  • Try a new kind of restraint that’s outside of your comfort zone.
  • Figure out the longest time you’ve spent tied up, and then beat your own record.
  • Take a yoga or pilates class to help limber up for even more intense bondage positions.

For Chastity Boys (and Girls!)…

  • Simple – spend more time locked in chastity!
  • Extra Credit – spend less time whining about being locked in chastity.

For Leather and Latex Fetishists…

  • Save up your cash and splurge on that premium piece of gear you’ve been fantasizing about for years.
  • Learn about the proper care and handling of your fetish treasures to ensure they’ll last.

For Erotic Authors…

  • Discover a new kink that you haven’t written about before.
  • Make a writing schedule and hold yourself to it.
  • Write more of the things that you love, and cherish the connections you make with readers who love them, too!

Happy New Year – now go make it your kinkiest one yet!

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